Anal Retentive vs Anal Expulsive: What Freud Really Meant
People throw around “anal retentive” to describe a coworker who color-codes their spreadsheets, but the phrase actually traces back to a specific stage in Freud’s theory of personality development, and the story behind it is stranger than the meme suggests. The anal stage occurs between roughly 18 months and 3 years old, when toilet training becomes the child’s first real...
